Winter Yoga Classes
January 8 – March 12 (10 weeks)
$160 for full session/
$20 drop in as space allows

This Winter we’ll be practicing in a way to help us lower stress levels and increase resilience. We will be moving through asana, breathwork, meditation, mindset and lifestyle recommendations that all support this inner tranquility and resilience.  We’ll also be geeking out on some of the modern research. (The modern world is catching up to the yogis… and the data is pretty cool to see.)

You can drop into these classes as space allows, but here are the benefits to session classes:

  • You’ll get a sweet discount on the classes.
  • You’ll have a guaranteed spot.
  • You’ll be more likely to come regularly to these progressively taught classes.
  • Community!
  • You will have access to recordings of classes to practice with at home.
  • You can make up any classes you miss.

If you miss a class you can make it up by:

  • Practicing with the recording
  • Coming to another live or live streamed class
  • Bringing a friend to you to class for free for each missed class.

Thursday Morning Class Details:

9-10:15AM
1701 Pleasant Green Dr., Durham

Wednesday Evening Class Details:

6:30 -7:45 PM 

Durham Friends Meeting House: 404 Alexander Ave.

Email me Olyndasmith@gmail.com to register

Posted on: November 15th, 2024 No Comments

As the dust of the election starts to settle, I have found myself realizing just how distracted I have been. This year has been many things. While I have been totally grateful to be home full time with my two little ones, I realize that my mind has not been fully here.  And it’s no wonder!  Everything on the global and national stages have needed a lot of processing and action.  Everything in the small bubble of our home has needed re-organizing, then re-re organizing to fit the demands of a new baby and the logistics of the pandemic.  The result has been a lot less “presence” while I’ve been present with my children. 

There is always an ebb and a flow with all our practices.  Now, I feel the flow returning.  I feel I have the space to re-engage with a presence practice at home.  I want to invite you to join me.  This is not a 14 day challenge.  It is not an opportunity to judge ourselves or to add another stressor to our log list of stressors.  It is not another item on the to-do list.  

What it I’m offering is simply an invitation to join me in doubling down on being present while being present with our children.  For February I plan to take 5 whole minutes every day to practice presence with each child.  To me this simply means that when I am with my child I am doing whatever I am doing with them as a mindfulness practice.  I am not making my grocery list in my mind, or planning the first thing I will do once they go to sleep, or re-organizing the play room one more time so that now that my son can stand it is still baby proof.  I am not unloading the dishwasher or making dinner or watering the plants. Those things do need doing.  But for 10 minutes each day (5 for each child), I plan NOT to do them.  But simply to breathe. Breathe and just be.  Together. 

The practice will be to really let the fullness of my child enter into my awareness the way I would focus on the breath or on the sensations of a pose in my yoga or meditation practice.  

When I was a teacher I did this regularly for each of my students.  So many gifts came from simply giving my full presence to a child.  I’m excited to begin cultivating those gifts in my home again with my own children.  
If you need a reason to double down on presence, here are a few.  You will benefit your own wellbeing.  This is basically a mindfulness moment and you can expect similar benefits as you would from any mindfulness practice.  You will benefit your relationship with your child. When we are present with each other, we are finally, really connecting.  And connection is the birthplace of everything meaningful in a relationship.  You will benefit your child.  Your full positive attention is the most important “nutrient” you ever can give them.  

If you feel to write me and let me know you are in – awesome! I would love to know you are practicing with me though we are apart.  If you don’t write, but do still engage even every once in a while in this practice… still awesome.  We do what we can do! We are in this together!

Posted on: January 28th, 2021 No Comments

Friends,

It’s crazy that I haven’t posted anything for nearly 4 months!  I’m sad to have slacked here – but it is for good reason.  Let me tell you what I’ve been busy with that has kept me from blogging.

Yoga with your 2-6 year old

I’m writing a book. OK, well, my daughter and I are writing it together.  It is a book about doing yoga with your 2-6 year old. This picture is from the amazing photo shoot that we did this summer.  We had 9 local families participate.  It’ll be a book helping folks engage with their littlest ones in a way that is safe, fun and health promoting 🙂 So many of my “writing hours” have been and will continue to go to that this year. If you know you want a first round copy of this you can donate on my gofundme page that we made to help cover the costs of doing this right.  There is more information on the gofundme page. Yes, you’ll be the first to know when it is in print!

Free Yoga Videos for You… to actually practice with

I’ve also been spending some time building a youtube channel(OlyndaYoga) full of short and long and easy and challenging videos for you to pick from.  These videos are really for you to practice with.  Many of the videos I’ve seen on line look really pretty, but don’t have very much (or any) alignment mentioned.  My videos are instructional videos that I’ve made with an eye towards keeping you safe, inspired and connected in your practice even when you need to practice at home.  It feels great to give you the ability to practice more, and to connect in this way.

Insta-Olynda

With most of my creative energy and time going into these outlets I may be posting to the blog only intermittently.  To stay connected, I’ve started a Instagram account where I plan to be posting regularly.  You can follow me there at OlyndaYoga.   And you can always sign up for my monthly newsletter if you don’t already get it.

 

Posted on: September 28th, 2018 No Comments

Time!

A few weeks ago I found myself, mouth wide open, trying to be patient while the sweet dental hygienist cleaned my teeth.  I was focusing on my breathing and being as yogic as I could.  Then it happened, I heard this thought, “I don’t have time for this!” There it was.  Dental cleaning isn’t exactly what I think of when I think of self-care. But, it is pretty necessary for healthy teeth.  And here I was, deciding I didn’t have time to do something that was necessary for my health!

I realized that so often that voice pops up when I would love to sit and slowly drink a cup of tea.  It comes up sometimes (gasp) when my daughter wants to pretend we are going on a voyage to return the heart of Te Fiti. I realized that I am in fact rushing through a lot of my own self – care so that I can get on to more “important” things.

Self-Care Matters

We know this.  I don’t need to find fancy studies to show you how much better EVERYTHING is when we take care of ourselves.  I have time for teeth cleanings, because I don’t have time for major dental work if I can avoid it.  I have time to play with my daughter because I don’t have time to regret being to busy to enjoy her.  I have time to do my practice, because I don’t have time to be frazzled, distracted and in pain.

But I know I need help.  We all do.  If we aren’t doing a self -care practice on purpose, it is unlikely to just happen.

May Self-Care Challenge

For this Mother’s day Month I want to double down on self-care, and I hope you’ll join me.  Here is what we are going to do:

1) Make a list of things that are truly nourishing to you – walks in the woods, tea with friends, doodling, dancing, singing, getting sleep… etc.

2) Make time to do at least one of these things EVERY DAY for the rest of May.  I plan to start on the 7th of May.  That gives us time to plan all that pampering in.  Also, it still gives us long enough to really get a good habit started!  If something each day is too radical (at the moment) for you, try every other day. You set your own goal! These don’t have to be long moments. A ten minute meditation will do just fine.  Yes, your yoga practice counts! These just need to be moments that are all for you.  Moments that are pure pleasure and nourishment.

3) Inspire us all, and hold yourself accountable by posting what you did that day on my FB page.  I’ll post for that day and you can post your self-care goodness in the comments for that day 🙂

4) Have FUN, and notice what all that self-care is amounting to!

 

Posted on: May 4th, 2018 No Comments

I’m not sure how this happened, but our family has planned two big trips involving air travel this month.  As I write this we are right between the two journeys. Since I’ve been contemplating travel with my 4 year old. I thought I’d share what I’ve learned (mostly from other parents!).  Please leave me your tips in the comment section!  My hope, as always, is to increase ease and connection on these trips – and to decrease meltdowns, frustrations, and unhealthy behaviors. Here are my 7 tips:

1. Manage Expectations (Yours and Hers)

In November I flew by myself for the first time in 5 years. I read the entire new Brene Brown Book, wrote in my journal and had revelations about my yoga practice while I gazed at the clouds.  It was awesome.  I don’t have to tell you that traveling with a baby, a preschooler or an older child (or all three!) is not the same scenario.  If I manage my expectations about what the flight will be like I’m much less likely to be frustrated, and much more likely to feel great about spending the time in the air doing things together with my little one.

It’s worth the pay off to manage your little one’s expectations as well. You can read books about airplane travel or even better “play” airport and airplane by acting out the travel experience before you go.  This gives our smallest children the chance to be prepared for the big travel day.  Include, waiting in line, keeping belts bucked when the light is on, waiting for luggage etc.

2. Pack in the Fun

Because of the great body of evidence that screen time is bad for our kids, we try to travel screen less. If you would like a great even-handed look at screen time and your child’d brain, check out Parenting in the Age of Attention Snatchers by Lucy Jo Palladino.  It’s profound.   So, what do you do with kids, if they aren’t attached to a movie or game?  It is a bit of a lost art, but there is actually a ton of things you can do.  You just need to pack for it.  Here are some things we always have in our carry-on these days:

New books from the library,

pictures or information about where you are going

Sticker books, these ones are great.

Activity books of any kind

silly putty, or small containers of play dough

snacks that require some processing (clementines, pistachios etc.)

I tend to be on the look out for this kind of a thing year round. I keep a “for travel” bag tucked away out of sight so we always have some good stuff in store when we travel. The sale area in target often has some great things.  I also love the Melissa and Doug on the go items.  If you live in the Triangle, the Red Hen in University Mall in Chapel Hill has a ton of great stuff.

My advice is to not open any of these until you are on the flight.  No need to do any of this in the airport! There is so much to do – including running, spinning and stretching since those little bodies will need to be still for so long in the air! Also, don’t forget to have enough so there will be some new things on the way home! The picture above is what I had in my carry on for one four year old to do during two two hour flights.

If you are flying for a long time, like over 6 hours, maybe a Mr. Rogers in there or two is not a bad idea.  But keep in mind that you can do lots of other things together!  Screen time does not have to be the default!

3. Games! Games! Games!

You can spend several hours just playing together!  Tic tac toe, I spy, and even rock paper scissors are great ways to connect while having this blessing of unplanned time to spend together.

One game that has gotten our family through many car trips is “I’m thinking of an Animal.” To play, one person thinks of an Animal, the other people playing have to ask yes or no questions of that player until someone guesses it right. Then that person has a turn.  Alternatively you can take turns being the person thinking of the animal.  My daughter never tires of this game.  We also play “I’m thinking of a thing.” Any thing! And “I’m thinking of a plant.” The variations are endless!

Another possibility is the memory game. Take four or 5 of any objects and put them on the tray table. Have your child investigate them.  Then have them close their eyes or turn around.  Take one object away.  They have to guess which one has been taken!  This is a great memory builder, and a great vocabulary builder!! And it’s fun. If it is too easy, try more objects.  For advanced players, instead of taking an object away you can switch the order of the objects and then the player has to put them back in order.

4. Pack Protein. Dump the sugar.

Give your child healthy snacks that give him the sustenance to make it through a long travel day. That means plenty of protein.  Nuts, cheeses, beef jerky, edamame are all great choices.  Try to avoid empty calories like crackers, and for sure do him the kindness of keeping all sugars our of his body for the trip!  You can’t give him fruit juice, flavored yogurt, white chocolate pretzels and then expect him to sit quietly for the flight!

5. Enter the Wonder Together

I flew a lot as a child. I remember spending hours just looking at the clouds.  Take a moment to explore this world with your child.  Talk about what you see in the airplane and also out the window.  Get curious together about everything!

6. Take Your Time

I always add an extra 30 minutes or so to what I think I need to get through the airport.  IT can be the difference between a delightful ramble to our gate with lots of conversation and curiosity and a meltdown on top of major frustration.  Kids are little, they just need more time to get places.  And we want them to take the time to investigate and be curious!

7. Plan for Delays

In your carry on, pack twice as much food and activities then you think you will need. Now a days, it’s a blessing if you get anywhere without delays!

Posted on: April 13th, 2018 2 Comments